On Friday 13 November 2009 I was privileged to be part of a quaint, slightly artificial but hugely enjoyable nostalgic gathering in the old House of Assembly chamber followed by a luncheon. The event was to remember the formation of the Progressive Party and its share in its successors in the PRP, PFP, DP and DA.
As I looked and listened at what were essentially self-congratulatory speeches by old white liberals my mind wandered. They were all old men but their non-sexism showed when they purred at the mention of their living champion in Helen Zille, who was present dutifully wearing her Bafana-Bafana shirt for Friday and sitting in the same front bench where PW Botha, John Vorster and Hendrik Verwoerd had sat, as well as at the name of their beloved colleague and champion, the late and revered Helen Suzman.
Not unsymbolically, their wives - none of this "partner" stuff for our generation - sat opposite them in the government benches. They were recognised for their support for, and hard work with, their husbands, as they together campaigned for liberal and non-racial values in the hard and unforgiving climate of all-white politics.
Some probably felt it would be a "DA in drag" event so it would be bad for their careers in the ANC and stayed away - so much for their liberal values. Tony Leon was away in Buenos Aires doing good work for South Africa. Van Zyl Slabbert was one of those who couldn't come because of ill-health. David Dalling, who had resigned from the ANC in disgust, was there.
The short speeches given from the opposition benches in that beautiful, intimate and historic debating chamber were entertaining and given with the skill and aplomb that one would expect from experienced, articulate, elderly ex-politicians. Only Clive van Ryneveld (former MP for East London ) mentioned the moral dilemma faced when some of the MPs departing from the old United Party, refused to resign their seats after undertaking to do so when they were nominated. Colin Eglin, who is a living symbol of shrewd, practical, principled tenacity in politics and Ray Swart, who entered Parliament at the astonishingly young age of 25, also spoke.
Harry Schwarz, at 85, gave a speech in his usual feisty style and reminded us all that he wasn't a "Prog" but a Reformist and that law and order has been undermined in the new South Africa . One couldn't but remember that both he and Helen Zille's family, with their German Jewish roots, had felt the vile, searing breath of the fascist Nazi dragon so it was not surprising that their liberal convictions were deeply rooted in their political DNA. They were committed to the truth of Pastor Niemöller's famous words about not speaking out and also to that principle that for good men to do nothing is sufficient for evil to triumph.