You could get praised as a family person and stalwart of the community, with all your good deeds recounted lovingly.
Or the footprints you leave in this world may not be very deep, so few people attend and you are not deeply mourned.
You may even be quietly vilified.
These thoughts crossed my mind after the recent untimely death of my brother, Ivor.
It was a very large funeral with many tributes paid.
It would have been better if the accolades had been made when he was alive, but this is quite typical.